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  Suicide Condolence Card Launched 

Hallmark Cards Inc. is making a sympathy  card for those who lose someone to suicide, expanding the company's  collection of death- and illness-related cards. 

The card, the first in a possible line has just been released. Hallmark's Lifesong collection, which includes the card, celebrates all  experiences, beautiful and painful, company spokeswoman Rachel Bolton  said Wednesday. 

"`There was a resounding response for this kind of card, cards that deal with  death and dying and spirituality,'" she said. 

Hallmark tested the idea for a suicide condolences card in at least six cities and received an  overwhelmingly positive response, she said. One woman said none of the cards she received after her  husband's suicide showed that people knew or understood the loss.  "What these cards do is they open the door to communication,'' Bolton said. ``The challenge is to educate people about what it means to lose someone like this.'' 

The card is set on a light blue background with a cloudy skyline across the front. At the bottom, a lone  sailboat sits on calm water.  The message inside describes someone fleeing from life and the impossibility of knowing that person's   suffering. It also seeks to reassure the reader that "our compassionate Creator"' understands and  "already has welcomed"' the loved one home. The cards will be identified in stores by a "suicide"' tab. Bolton said the card will be available in about  7,000 Hallmark stores and Hallmark-brand marketers.   Hallmark a the greeting card industry's leader with large proportion of the market.

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